Ok, well I told my dad I wanted to take martial arts, so he told me I could either take Japanese or Filipino martial arts--As to honor my heritage, and since there's so many martial arts relating to Japan and the Philippines, so it's very hard for me to choose. I'm 5'5" and I tend to work with bladed weapons and my punching and kicking is stronger than the average twelve-year-old. I've heard of Kendo and Aikido (and of course those two are excellent courses to take), but my dad said to choose only one. So if I take Kendo, I'll be missing out on the defensive grappling moves of Aikido, and if I take Aikido, I'll be missing out on the honorable way of the samurai that's in Kendo. I'm really confused. Little help?